Our table in Wadeshwar was very noisy. Old school friends were meeting after a long time. Subjects kept on changing tracks continuously. Amongst was an ex-NDA Cadet, Prathamesh Apte, who is currently completing his training in IMA-Deheradun. He was narrating his thrilling and unique experiences. We were awestruck! So much of hardship, mental as well as physical stress with extreme discipline. But, he told us, PATRIOTISM gave them the strength to overcome this hectic schedule and pumped ‘josh’ in them. We are proud of our friend and certainly have a real respect for him in our hearts! That evening flew off quickly, and was a memorable one..
At night when I relaxed on bed, my mind kept on asking questions relentlessly. Why Prathamesh stands out amongst us? What’s special in him? He has created a different niche in the society. He is looked upon as role model by school students and their parents. Even in our school he gains a never before appreciation from teachers. WHY??? For few minutes my mind went blank. I couldn’t find any answers..
The next moment I realized that the answers were in my questions! The society around us is striving hard to attain self-security in all respects. People are identifying themselves as separate, isolated souls, and thus want to satisfy their growing needs which aren’t the basic needs (those are greed)! No one wants to heal wounds of others and at the same time wants to remain woundless. Willingness to help poor and needy people is dropping down. Though we realize help is required, helping hand is not being extended, and this help will surely change the situation! Some people keep a very clean approach “others are poor that’s their problem; they are living bad lives due to poverty. As I pay (heavy?) taxes, its not my job to help them. Government is responsible and must take a strong initiative”. This means majority of the society is flowing in a steady streamline aiming materialistic pleasures. Prathamesh has stepped aside this routine streamline and hence is making a different mark! That’s why he is so extraordinary and hence a respectable human being. But just by appreciating his step, or by giving a pat on his back, will the situation change? It’s easy to say that ‘you are doing a great job, keep it up’, for people flowing away from moral values. Why don’t these people work on similar lines? Why do they run to materialistic achievements? Are they lethargic? Are they weak, incapable of doing it? Intolerant? Are they cowards? NO… we lack the approach, outlook and we are resisting change. Its an acquired inertia towards change, which is difficult to break!
It was almost midnight; there was deep silence outside, suggesting answers to my questions-SILENCE! I woke up and went near my window, gazed at the pitch black sky studded with millions of glittering stars. Its so refreshing to see such natural beauty! This remembered me of a song from SWADES ‘ yeh tara who tara ‘, which really stands as an example of how one should change the way to look at things around. One such quote I read few days back. It says… ‘I cursed myself when I desired a new pair of shoes, when I found that the person next to me doesn’t have feet!’ I was shocked…this strengthened my thought process further.
“Sanskar” I uttered suddenly. The moral values inculcated during upbringing of kids. YES! Finally I collapsed on the answer. Molding of wet mud has to be done very carefully in order to shape it into a perfect pot. This is missing today. With growing unit families and both parents working all the day, children aren’t getting good ‘sanskaras’. They on their own decide what is right or wrong landing in wrong directions, keeping money as their prominent and sole aim! This is because their parents run behind money. Being children they are keen observers and quick followers, thus they walk fast on a misguided, wrong path living a self-centered life!
Has everything finished? Can’t we do anything to improve this situation? Is everything running out of hands? Absolutely not! Its responsibility of today’s parents, we – the present youth (future parents) to change this situation by altering ourselves. Take out quality time for children, be with them. Also, set an example for youngsters by working differently for healthy social cause. Along with parents, teachers too have a crucial role. They shouldn’t act as catalyst to drag the students in ‘academic competition’. At the same time just by giving donations you can’t help poor people. More than that, dedication and time is needed at this moment, a huge manpower is much needed to initiate a change. Its said that, ‘Man isn’t intelligent by answering all the questions, but by being open to all the questions’. So let us end our pseudo ignorance, lets be open to all problems, let us take step forward..Together!
Monday, March 30, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
TARNI... THE SAILING BOAT!
When one thinks of sea, while eyes wink boat comes to our mind! And then many more things start sailing. Grainy sand, rhythmic waves and the setting sun too! It’s a treat for any photographer to click the evening moments colored in artistic patterns, in varied colors. At the same time though, apart from sea life, another life is closely linked with the sea, ‘Life of a Fisherman’.
3-4Km away from Guhagar, a neatly arranged, small village resides at the shore, ‘Asagoli.’ Placed adjacent to this wonderful seashore, it’s populated with families of fishermen. Day in day out, for years together fishing business is being operated from this place. Me and my friend, Abhijeet (he was my guide too), went to Asagoli, during my trip to Guhagar. I got a chance to look at this different life closely and to capture some of the moments. We went there in the evening, sun geared up to bid Adios to the awesome shore! A small shade caught our attention; fishermen were busy processing the seafood. Sorting, weighing, stocking was done smoothly. None the less, my eyes were glued at the horizon, which was blazing and the silhouettes of number of s
Just then, a man aged in his 50s came walking to us, grey hair, bare feet, a normal dark colored shirt and a towel around his waist, a typical fisherman! Abhijeet knew him and told me his name, ‘Babya Timsekar’. With a very wide smile he welcomed us and started telling about the fishing methods, the business part, simultaneously pulling out several fish species from the ice packed crates! Yeah… he faced the camera confidently too! We were enjoying his experiences and the info that he was telling us. He was a very simple man. Babya, I thought would be earning enough to satisfy his family basic needs. But, Abhijeet made an effort to prove me wrong. The amount which Babya earns each month is truly HUGE! It’s so enormous that a MBA Graduate can’t think of it even after 10 years of corporate working experience! Yet Babya appears as I have described, if you meet him at the sea. It’s not an easy life though, but isn’t difficult to a person like Babya to wear branded clothes and throw attitude at the workers and towards strangers like me. But he never does it.
Along with Babya we walked towards the sea. A boat was arriving after hours of fishing, the job now was to
empty the vessel and process the caught seafood. It’s really interesting to watch these activities, for them it’s a routine but the ease at which they do it is worth appreciating. As this shore doesn’t have a structured port to dock the ships, fishermen are at the task of bringing the craft outside the water. They swim towards the ferry and literally pull it on the sand almost 100m away from water! For the easy movement of the boat on the sand, they place furrowed wooden logs coated with some kind of paint, in a line and then pull out the ferry. It’s a treat to watch these guys working together as they sing along while pulling the boat. Wow!!! Clicking these moments did put a smile on my face, unknowingly!
Apart from this, the shore was full of life. Gulls, Kites were enjoying fishing too! Herons, Sandpipers too made effort to get their dinner as fast as they can. Kids were enjoying cricket judiciously, on the customized wet sand pitches! Screaming and running hard, lads were happy and they had a blast! Meanwhile the boat was unloaded and cutting, sorting, washing started at an amazing pace.
Women had entered the scene now and no doubt, they were highly skilled in above activities. They were as busy as the bees, and very shy to face the camera.
It was glad to notice that every person had a very distinct role to play. So many activities were going on in chorus. For the first time I had neglected a perfect sunset that too on a beach! Darkness t
ook over, my camera lens got slower than a turtle. I packed up and we walked through the village. Small houses were depicting the fisherman’s life! They had walls engraved with fish shapes. Babya was accompanying us; he invited us to his house. On our way home, he collected ‘Thanda’ bottles i.e. cold drinks for us. He offered us thanda at his house, felt very nice and surprised, I had never expected this. We had a long chat on his terrace, I enjoyed observing everything, and I heard some typical songs ‘Koli Geeta’, which were being played in the village.
It was glad to notice that every person had a very distinct role to play. So many activities were going on in chorus. For the first time I had neglected a perfect sunset that too on a beach! Darkness t
We had to get back to Guhagar, Babya , with his patent wide smile said bye, and escorted us to the main road. We shook hands, I said thank you, but had something more to tell, which I couldn’t. On our way back, I remembered the ‘Sailing Boats’ in the sea, fighting the waves and wind, these never stopped, Babya too was like a sailing boat…TARNI!
Monday, December 29, 2008
FREE HAPPY MOMENTS!
It is the biggest thing a person desires. We work for it hard, and we live for it. The aim gets fixed and we revolve around it in the entire game of life. Adjustments are made to achieve that ‘aim’. MONEY, you guessed it right. First I was going to say satisfaction, but many say unless your pockets are full, how will you be ‘satisfied?’ Is it?? I mean, are we always satisfied (completely) even when our pockets are overflowing, our bank balances is ‘balanced’ heavily? I won’t answer these questions, as every person has his own answers.
In childhood, I remember, everyone asked – What do you wish to be? In schools to we have written such essays. Doctor, Engineer, Cricketer were the predominant answers. I tto, said something similar. But what am I doing now? May be not the same, what I had said. But surely, I am driving the vehicle to reach the aim ‘money’. Everyone does it, so am I! it has become so important! Deviation from this journey leads you somewhere else, leaving you ‘Alone’! We humans hate this word, no matter if we are accompanied by money only, but we want some company, we can’t live alone at all.
Money is a transactional tool. We pay it for daily activities, for our comforts, for entertainment, travel, luxury and thus we try to be happy. The more you will pay, the happier you would be, is the golden equation. Do we pay for breathing clean air? Do we pay for smiling? Do we pay for true love? Do we spend money for watching the setting sun? For resting in a trees shadow? Or for experiencing star studded sky on no moon day, or for watching a full moon?
All the above things and many more, for which we don’t pay at all, we don’t experience them either. We have moved far away from the FREE HAPPY MOMENTS! May be, we think they aren’t worthy moments as they are free. Because now we decide the worth on the amount of money we spend for sa particular thing. On reading this, go step out and be happy. Go see some splendid things happening around you continuously, which demand you time and not money! Do earn HAPPINESS along with MONEY.
In childhood, I remember, everyone asked – What do you wish to be? In schools to we have written such essays. Doctor, Engineer, Cricketer were the predominant answers. I tto, said something similar. But what am I doing now? May be not the same, what I had said. But surely, I am driving the vehicle to reach the aim ‘money’. Everyone does it, so am I! it has become so important! Deviation from this journey leads you somewhere else, leaving you ‘Alone’! We humans hate this word, no matter if we are accompanied by money only, but we want some company, we can’t live alone at all.
Money is a transactional tool. We pay it for daily activities, for our comforts, for entertainment, travel, luxury and thus we try to be happy. The more you will pay, the happier you would be, is the golden equation. Do we pay for breathing clean air? Do we pay for smiling? Do we pay for true love? Do we spend money for watching the setting sun? For resting in a trees shadow? Or for experiencing star studded sky on no moon day, or for watching a full moon?
All the above things and many more, for which we don’t pay at all, we don’t experience them either. We have moved far away from the FREE HAPPY MOMENTS! May be, we think they aren’t worthy moments as they are free. Because now we decide the worth on the amount of money we spend for sa particular thing. On reading this, go step out and be happy. Go see some splendid things happening around you continuously, which demand you time and not money! Do earn HAPPINESS along with MONEY.
(photo by soham)
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Twice A Day..
Me and my friend had been to McDonalds this Monday. We had a burger and Mc Swirl Ice-cream. Wow!! I enjoyed it after a long time; we stepped out and were walking on JM road. A boy came and asked for money, easily I said no. he followed us for a while demanding money, with our tummies full we ignored him, until he said, “Bahot bhuk lagi hai, paise do khan ke liye...” (I am hungry, and have no money to eat). Instantly the burger which I had, started dancing in my stomach... I asked him “kacchi dabeli khaoge?”(Would you have kacchi dabeli?) Without a second thought he said yes!
There was a stall nearby, we went there and ordered one. I asked him his name, “Rohit”, he replied. He was eagerly waiting for his ‘treat’, the first one in how many days??? I don’t know, neither I asked him! Rohit enjoyed every bite, his face became so expressive! I asked whether he would like to have another dabeli, he just nodded, he had no time to speak..
“School jate ho?”, I asked. Rohit said no, and said “ Iskool ke liye paisa nahi hai!” (he had no money for schooling). But when I asked if he wishes to study, his ‘yes’ was a lazy one. Rohit is a representative of all children roaming on streets doing nothing. They don’t understand how important education is, no one told them. All they know is to have food twice a day... they have to work very hard to have it.
Rohits face was glittering as his stomach was full(may be), he had a wide smile on his face, this made me very happy, very satisfied. He thanked me with his smile... we parted ways by waving hands…
There was a stall nearby, we went there and ordered one. I asked him his name, “Rohit”, he replied. He was eagerly waiting for his ‘treat’, the first one in how many days??? I don’t know, neither I asked him! Rohit enjoyed every bite, his face became so expressive! I asked whether he would like to have another dabeli, he just nodded, he had no time to speak..
“School jate ho?”, I asked. Rohit said no, and said “ Iskool ke liye paisa nahi hai!” (he had no money for schooling). But when I asked if he wishes to study, his ‘yes’ was a lazy one. Rohit is a representative of all children roaming on streets doing nothing. They don’t understand how important education is, no one told them. All they know is to have food twice a day... they have to work very hard to have it.
Rohits face was glittering as his stomach was full(may be), he had a wide smile on his face, this made me very happy, very satisfied. He thanked me with his smile... we parted ways by waving hands…
Friday, October 10, 2008
STRONG SUPERSTITIONS…
What’s so incredible about Indian wildlife, or nature? Strong mountain ranges, curvy rivers, streams, channels, brooks, blossoming flowers, chirping birds, noisy cicadas, roaring Bengal tigers!!!! These are the very few things to name, in reality NATURE to understand and more importantly to digest it is so like a horizon to us. In cities we rarely come across nature, and we forget that NATURE is dead for cities! Moving a little away from cities we see green rice fields, age old trees, flowing streams, lively waterfalls. Our journey begins and we think how it is preserved here?
(thick bamboo cover in the forest)

We spontaneously raise eyebrows when heard of superstitions. But never analyze why these are being followed for years together. I thank all those who follow such superstitions. These are contributing immensely in conserving nature. I wish everyone in cities too; believe in such STRONG SUPERSTITIONS… I AM HIGHLY SUPERSTITIOUS!!!
(All photos by SOHAM)
(All photos by SOHAM)
Friday, September 26, 2008
SUNSET.......




It acts as a magnet for me! Witnessing the setting sun is my favorite hobby since couple of years. Some people think sunset means 'win' of DARKNESS. But according to me, it is a healthy goodbye to the ‘day’ and warm welcome to the coming Darkness. Sun slowly creates space for moon to take over the SKY, leaving behind color palate, which fascinates me a lot! Sky moods during sunset are simply amazing! Numerous colors mixed in ‘perfect’ proportions. …
Seen and observed it for days together, I am able to recognize moods of SUN too! Like Sun in hurry, sun with a frown look, sun with tears (seems either me or sun are mad!), lazy sun, shy sun and many more. Sky becomes HIS companion in setting these ‘setting’ moods. It’s the time when I can directly look in HIS (sun) eyes, without blinking, without stressing them…
Apart from the setting Sun and me watching it carefully, there are several other events occurring. Day ends, Dark takes over, Moon takes the centre stage slowly along with millions of stars, plants and flowers start loosing their fresh mood, birds, animals call off the day and return towards their homes, nocturnal world begins with owls, rats, frogs (during rainy season), snakes starting their ‘day’ after a nice sleep. Watching birds flying back to their nests makes me aware of caring nature, aware of eagerness to be at ‘home’!
Light diminishes as I think about the next day’s sunrise… I get up and start ‘returning’ to my house, sun always leaves behind some rays to aid me find the ‘right route’. I turn around and start walking, thanking SUN without words…………
Apart from the setting Sun and me watching it carefully, there are several other events occurring. Day ends, Dark takes over, Moon takes the centre stage slowly along with millions of stars, plants and flowers start loosing their fresh mood, birds, animals call off the day and return towards their homes, nocturnal world begins with owls, rats, frogs (during rainy season), snakes starting their ‘day’ after a nice sleep. Watching birds flying back to their nests makes me aware of caring nature, aware of eagerness to be at ‘home’!
Light diminishes as I think about the next day’s sunrise… I get up and start ‘returning’ to my house, sun always leaves behind some rays to aid me find the ‘right route’. I turn around and start walking, thanking SUN without words…………
Sunday, September 21, 2008





LIFE IN CONCRETE……
Looking through window, I saw some bird busy. Very busy, in fact! Holding something in its beak it relentlessly flew to and fro for countless number of times. There was ‘home’ emerging near my window. Oh… wow! I was going to have a neighbor in a few days of time. Bird was building a nest, which means he would lay eggs in it, and after hatching a NEW LIFE would Begin! A New Life… it made me so excited. Just then, an ant crawled over my hand in a busy mood too! I dint disturb her, may be her kids were hungry. A thought steered in my mind, LIFE IN CONCRETE…!!!! Inspite of our (Human) interference there was life prevalent in cities, where less trees dance along the breeze. The thought had both sides, the good one said LIFE never looses but the second banged in saying WHO GAVE U RIGHTS TO ESTABLISH THE CONCRETE EMPIRE?????? I was left clueless, but then with a positive perspective I started looking @ the LIFE IN CONCRETE!!! Only now, I am able to see the busy birds, crawling insects, colorful butterflies, even the cute kittens, youthful squirrels, running dogs, webby spiders and scary lizards too! Well that’s life.. The way we look at it is more important…
(ALL SNAPS CLICKED BY SOHAM (AUTHOR) - CAMERA Canon S3iS)
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
आमचं छान चाललय !
माधव आपटे - एक सामान्य माणूस. बॅंकेत चांगल्या पदावर नोकरी, बायको, दोन मुलं, संसार सुखाने करावा, अशी इच्छा मनात, पण तत्त्वं सांभाळताना त्याची कसरत व्हायची... असत्य, लाचलुचपत, रोजच्या जीवनात घडीघडी होणारी फसवणूक या सगळ्याला त्याचा विरोध! .......एक दिवस छोट्याशा कारणावरून त्याच्या भावनांचा उद्रेक होतो अन् "माधव आपटे' जग बदलायला निघतो - संतापतोही! "डोंबिवली फास्ट' पाहताना वाटत होतं आपणही उठावं, जावं, तोडफोड करत फिरावं- सिनेमा संपला आणि लाज वाटली मला. सगळीकडे कौतुक झालं त्या कथानकाचं, अभिनयाचं, त्यात दाखवलेल्या सत्य परिस्थितीतचं - तरीही लाज वाटली, की या विषयावर सिनेमा काढतो आपण. असे विषय सिनेमातून मांडावे लागतायेत, आपल्याच समाजाला नागवं करतोय सर्वांसमोर आणि त्याचंच कौतुक करतोय. यावर कृती सोडाच, विचारही होत नाही, हे त्याहून खेदजनक!तत्त्वे बाळगणारा मूर्ख ठरतो. समाजच त्याला मूर्ख ठरवतो, "लोक' त्याला वेडा ठरवतात, म्हणून ती बाळगायची नाहीत! का? त्याचा लोकांना त्रास होतो. सगळं काही लोकांसाठी! याच लोकांच्यात मिसळायचं. त्यांचं म्हणे ऐकायचं, लोकांशी चांगलं वागायचं, कोणाला दुखवायचं नाही. आयुष्यात याच लोकांपेक्षा "वेगळं' काहीतरी करायचं आणि त्याच वेळी इतर लोकांसारखं वागायचं - लोकांत शोभून दिसेल असं!याच लोकांचा त्रास आपण सहन करायचा, गर्दीत त्यांच्याकडून चेंगरून घ्यायचं, श्वास घुसमटला तरी ओरडायचं नाही, तक्रारसुद्धा करायची नाही! याच्या बदल्यात खूप काही मिळतं, मग गर्दीतली घुसमट, पाकीट मारणारे हात, भ्रष्ट पोलिसांचे संरक्षण, आया-बहिणींकडे पाहणारी वखवखती नजर आणि तोंडातून "ब्र' काढताच जिवे मारण्याची धमकी!"दाम' भक्त झाले सगळे! मिळेल तेवढा आणि मिळेल त्या मार्गाने पैसा कमवायचा... लाचारासारखं पुढेपुढे करायचं. सांडलेल्या साखरेपाशी जशी मुंग्यांची रांग लागते, तसे सगळे पैशांमागे धावतात. सारं काही कमावता, पण काय गमावलंय ते लक्षात येत नाही.सगळं पाहतोय पण करता काही येत नाही. मी एकटाच नाही सगळेच पाहताहेत. त्याने घुसमट वाढतीय मनातली. समाज बदलला पाहिजे. आजकाल वाईट दिवस आलेत फार, भविष्य धोक्यात आहे या देशाचं, हे विषय गप्पा मारायचे झालेत. एकत्र जमले की दारू ढोसत समाजकल्याणाच्या गोष्टी करायच्या, तावातावात बोलायचं. नशा उतरली, की समाजसेवेची नशाही आपोआपच उतरते. रोजच्या व्यवहारात कोणाशी या विषयावर बोलाल, तर "सोडना रे! कशाला डोकं चालवतो, पैसा कमवायचा! बाकी दुनिया गेली तेल लावत,' असं उत्तर मिळतं. सामान्य माणसांनी या सगळ्यांची इतकी सवय करून घेतली आहे, की हे चक्र नको त्या दिशेने फिरतंय याची त्याला जाणीवच होत नाही! त्यांनी पटवलंय मनाला, की हे जीवन असंच आहे, असंच जगायचंय आता... समाज समाजच राहणार आणि आपण सामान्य मागमूसच! "डोंबिवली फास्ट' सारखा चित्रपट आपण किती "फास्ट' विसरलो! असे अनेक चित्रपट येतील, कौतुक होईल, पुरस्कार मिळतील आणि इतिहासजमा होतील... कोणाला वेळ आहे हे "असलं' लक्षात ठेवायला? एकच सांगावं वाटतंय, मानेवर तलवार ठेवून जगतोय आपण, मान हलवली तर कापली जाईल, हलवली नाही तर अवघडेल - मरेपर्यंत! कापली जाण्यापेक्षा अवघडून मेलेलं पसंत करतायेत सारे... दुसरं का?
- सोहम सबनीस
- सोहम सबनीस
We are graduates now!
We are focusing at vertical development. Which means the gap between poor and rich people is increasing at a fast pace. Instead we should help to reduce it. For this to happen horizontal development is vital. This will lead to overall development of the society. A very disheartening thing is that very few people think in this way.
What does education mean to people living in cities? May be a Masters degree or something more than that! It is looked upon as a powerful tool to earn money and nothing else. In villages there are schools which lack minimum infrastructure, there are schools having a single teacher, many children have to travel 6-8 km daily for schooling without any mode of transport ( i.e walking!!). The very important learning atmosphere is missing completely!
Recently I went to a village named ‘Khireshwar’ (foot village of Harishchandra fort). I saw the school there. A very simple school..hardly 7-8 classrooms. I do not know much about the staff there nor about the school atmosphere as I went there at night, I left the village on Sunday. But the entire night I thought about education facilities in villages like the one I was staying in! It seemed that we GRADUATES from the CITIES are very selfish! Constantly my mind compared the school I went and the schools in village. There was a huge gap, which is very difficult to span, and with our negligence, the task is going to be more difficult. What is the solution? I am unable to find a very strong solution to this. However, I think if all young graduates, postgraduates come together and visit different villages to help our brothers and sisters in their education; it would be a remarkable thing. I know that for this problem to be solved, a very strong government support is required, but why should we wait for our lethargic government to act on this? Even if we work on Saturday-Sundays, it would be a great achievement. So lets begin the ‘GRAM SHIKSKHA ABHIYAN’.
What does education mean to people living in cities? May be a Masters degree or something more than that! It is looked upon as a powerful tool to earn money and nothing else. In villages there are schools which lack minimum infrastructure, there are schools having a single teacher, many children have to travel 6-8 km daily for schooling without any mode of transport ( i.e walking!!). The very important learning atmosphere is missing completely!
Recently I went to a village named ‘Khireshwar’ (foot village of Harishchandra fort). I saw the school there. A very simple school..hardly 7-8 classrooms. I do not know much about the staff there nor about the school atmosphere as I went there at night, I left the village on Sunday. But the entire night I thought about education facilities in villages like the one I was staying in! It seemed that we GRADUATES from the CITIES are very selfish! Constantly my mind compared the school I went and the schools in village. There was a huge gap, which is very difficult to span, and with our negligence, the task is going to be more difficult. What is the solution? I am unable to find a very strong solution to this. However, I think if all young graduates, postgraduates come together and visit different villages to help our brothers and sisters in their education; it would be a remarkable thing. I know that for this problem to be solved, a very strong government support is required, but why should we wait for our lethargic government to act on this? Even if we work on Saturday-Sundays, it would be a great achievement. So lets begin the ‘GRAM SHIKSKHA ABHIYAN’.
In Pursuit Of Happiness..
Get admission in a good college, for that you have study hard… so that our parents, friends and YOU feel good; everyone praise you for being brilliant throughout! In the college be obedient, studious and helpful so that you are famous … when with friends; during any kind of debate, or chatting make sure that you don’t remain unnoticed. Wear stylish clothes, accessories so that when u walk around u get noticed!
College days fade off and soon u realize that you failed to make a mark as per your wish. U realize that there are more areas u should be working on so that u make ur mark! And then in search of job u improvise on ur communication skills, ur personality, ur fitness.. one fine day there is an offer letter in your hand , those salary figures live upto ur expectations and now u r the happiest creature on the earth! Ur cell phone rings, a happy voice screams in your ears.. he is ur friend informing u about the job he got, 1.5 times ur salary!!!! And now u become as helpless as never before! for that moment u forget that he is ur friend, you tend to faint (mentally)… yet again have u failed to MAKE A MARK???
U work hard , earn lots of money.. spend it to get noticed! You want to be a gud son, a nice husband, an adorable father and a lovely grandfather! Each time in every role, u make ur mark! Is that volatile? Does anyone really remember THAT mark u have tried to make? Does these things really satisfy u? when ur death bell rings, are u completely satisfied ? do you have regrets, expectations, jealousy????? YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You aren’t satisfied at all… in the race of MAKING A MARK u r the biggest looser. What mark have you made? No answer…. Have you contributed substantially to this world…not in terms of money but in terms of moral values? No answer… have u enjoyed ur hobbies? Have you lived a single day as per your wish? Have you ever slept peacefully not because your body was tired but ur mind was relaxed???? No answer….
You never made a point to think about these questions!!!! U developed a skill of being positive throughout ur life but at the end you get all negative answers! Then was that a skill really developed ? U have saved huge amount in the banks but still ur ‘satisfaction pool’ is empty! Then where is ur mark???? It has vanished…rather it wasn’t there at all.. THAT MARK sucked ur energy throughout the race and didn’t fetch u a single penny!!!
You might think I am trying to MAKE A MARK as a writer, so that someone should recognize it, should pat my back..and say “You are gud at penning your views” though I don’t want to make a mark, still that may happen…
College days fade off and soon u realize that you failed to make a mark as per your wish. U realize that there are more areas u should be working on so that u make ur mark! And then in search of job u improvise on ur communication skills, ur personality, ur fitness.. one fine day there is an offer letter in your hand , those salary figures live upto ur expectations and now u r the happiest creature on the earth! Ur cell phone rings, a happy voice screams in your ears.. he is ur friend informing u about the job he got, 1.5 times ur salary!!!! And now u become as helpless as never before! for that moment u forget that he is ur friend, you tend to faint (mentally)… yet again have u failed to MAKE A MARK???
U work hard , earn lots of money.. spend it to get noticed! You want to be a gud son, a nice husband, an adorable father and a lovely grandfather! Each time in every role, u make ur mark! Is that volatile? Does anyone really remember THAT mark u have tried to make? Does these things really satisfy u? when ur death bell rings, are u completely satisfied ? do you have regrets, expectations, jealousy????? YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You aren’t satisfied at all… in the race of MAKING A MARK u r the biggest looser. What mark have you made? No answer…. Have you contributed substantially to this world…not in terms of money but in terms of moral values? No answer… have u enjoyed ur hobbies? Have you lived a single day as per your wish? Have you ever slept peacefully not because your body was tired but ur mind was relaxed???? No answer….
You never made a point to think about these questions!!!! U developed a skill of being positive throughout ur life but at the end you get all negative answers! Then was that a skill really developed ? U have saved huge amount in the banks but still ur ‘satisfaction pool’ is empty! Then where is ur mark???? It has vanished…rather it wasn’t there at all.. THAT MARK sucked ur energy throughout the race and didn’t fetch u a single penny!!!
You might think I am trying to MAKE A MARK as a writer, so that someone should recognize it, should pat my back..and say “You are gud at penning your views” though I don’t want to make a mark, still that may happen…
Sunday, August 24, 2008
ITS REALITY
I went to a corporation school recently, and was helping 5th std students to understand mathematics. Everyone tried hard to get the answer to a very simple problem. Swapnil wasn’t scribbling anything in his notebook, I went and asked his problem..he didn’t have a pencil! i checked in my bag..Even i did not have it. This incident made me think wider...Swapnil had a problem knew the solution but i failed to solve his problem. in my cupboard there are dozens of pencils but what’s the use of those? i failed to solve his problem though i addressed it.. This exactly is the scene around us! We are aware of the loopholes yet we aren’t able to seal them, instead we are widening them ferociously.
When i shared this problem with my friends their instant reply was-"it is for government to look into it!!!After all the elected members are there to do these jobs! Its not our job at all!"..I was shocked and worried at the same time! i remembered our GD sessions in which everyone was talking, debating on issues country is facing like poverty, child labour, illiteracy and many more. each person there spoke with a vision, with a passion and with a virtual motto of 'charity begins at home'...well, that was all for scoring high marks! it was all false care...false care for brothers and sisters who are suffering! it was a selfish act, completely selfish! my brain went numb for few minutes before i concluded that this is the REALITY! not a single person debating was interested in changing the present situation. Why i should do it? whats the big deal as long as i am getting handsome salary? Were the 2QUESTIONS continuously growing in their BRILLIANT MINDS!
i am not writing this to get your brains washed, neither i am going to advise you to do anything. Its your decision to act upon..If u r willing to act! some may think throwing money would simplify this problem, but mind u it will make it more worse. its not ONLY money which is needed , efforts from each of one us, winning hearts of poor people, making them feel comfortable when we work with them, is required the most. Its upon you all how to lead your life and how to help others to lead their lives!!!!!!!!!!!!
When i shared this problem with my friends their instant reply was-"it is for government to look into it!!!After all the elected members are there to do these jobs! Its not our job at all!"..I was shocked and worried at the same time! i remembered our GD sessions in which everyone was talking, debating on issues country is facing like poverty, child labour, illiteracy and many more. each person there spoke with a vision, with a passion and with a virtual motto of 'charity begins at home'...well, that was all for scoring high marks! it was all false care...false care for brothers and sisters who are suffering! it was a selfish act, completely selfish! my brain went numb for few minutes before i concluded that this is the REALITY! not a single person debating was interested in changing the present situation. Why i should do it? whats the big deal as long as i am getting handsome salary? Were the 2QUESTIONS continuously growing in their BRILLIANT MINDS!
i am not writing this to get your brains washed, neither i am going to advise you to do anything. Its your decision to act upon..If u r willing to act! some may think throwing money would simplify this problem, but mind u it will make it more worse. its not ONLY money which is needed , efforts from each of one us, winning hearts of poor people, making them feel comfortable when we work with them, is required the most. Its upon you all how to lead your life and how to help others to lead their lives!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sunday, July 29, 2007
QUESTIONS… AND QUESTIONS……
What is god? Where do I find it? Has any contemporary lad seen him? If everything is HIS play, then what are we here for? If I get negative answers to these questions then should I believe in GOD? Should I worship GOD? Do people worshiping have an edge in their life? Are they better off in various walks of life than me? Do they succeed due to their faith or do I really fail if I am atheist?
Many define their faith in worship to get peace in doing so… do they really have peace in crowded temples and other hustled worship places? Amidst heavily noisy places how can one find soul peace? I get to see frowned faces when I refuse to accompany anyone to a temple… why? When I don’t persuade anyone for not going to a temple, nor I “express” any gestures, why do they to do so? I have heard a lot that worshiping GOD makes you a good, balanced, caring, introspective individual… ( I might miss some other QAULITIES…Sorry for that!) looking at the mass busy worshiping, by now we should have people doing all good things, striving for others and making world a better place to live in! but what do we see? Exactly opposite of my hypothesis! ( I made this hypothesis because, atheists surely form the minority, compared to folks strongly believing GOD) and does this surely state that all bad things are done by ATHEISTS????????
Reading questions I stated u r thinking, ( I know that…) do we really know precise answers to all the questions? If you try and find answers to few of the questions and imply those in your routine, will help strengthening basics… i may lose a battle here ( not able to convince you) but there is a war to be won…………..
Many define their faith in worship to get peace in doing so… do they really have peace in crowded temples and other hustled worship places? Amidst heavily noisy places how can one find soul peace? I get to see frowned faces when I refuse to accompany anyone to a temple… why? When I don’t persuade anyone for not going to a temple, nor I “express” any gestures, why do they to do so? I have heard a lot that worshiping GOD makes you a good, balanced, caring, introspective individual… ( I might miss some other QAULITIES…Sorry for that!) looking at the mass busy worshiping, by now we should have people doing all good things, striving for others and making world a better place to live in! but what do we see? Exactly opposite of my hypothesis! ( I made this hypothesis because, atheists surely form the minority, compared to folks strongly believing GOD) and does this surely state that all bad things are done by ATHEISTS????????
Reading questions I stated u r thinking, ( I know that…) do we really know precise answers to all the questions? If you try and find answers to few of the questions and imply those in your routine, will help strengthening basics… i may lose a battle here ( not able to convince you) but there is a war to be won…………..
Thursday, July 26, 2007
KLEPTOMANIACS
Satisfaction primes the mind these days…most of the times NOT BEING SATISFIED!!! Money makes you work for anything and everything, and at the dusk when you stretch your wings and take a flight towards ‘the nest’ - your home, u just take wid you strain, sweat, lots of money.. but you leave ‘satisfaction’ at your work place unused by yourself and unfortunately no one uses it, infact u have lost it , never to find it again! Laying on bed your eyes close, you take a psuedorest, wherein your body relaxes but your mind leaps now and then to next days work, plans, meetings… we never are recusant and stick to conventions as if a commensal associations seen in nature.
Few exceptions always stand up as ODDS! Very fond of odds , I always do try and get closer to their mindset. Looking at their dedicated work and the SATISFACTION makes me a dwarf in all respect! Keeping aside money constraints they work to gain what possibly we could just think of, or might not even think of! The sacrifices made by them to achieve the island are harsh, painful sometimes even emotional but their strength is their WORK… I said island coz it’s the place where access is less and being alone yet is blessed with treasure, which kleptomaniacs like us wont succeed grabbing this treasure… as it excludes gems, currency, properties and FAME which we are fond of.. instead that bounds SATISFACTION , INFINITE HAPPINESS AND THAT SOUL PEACE!!!! It’s the palace antagonistic with the palace in our mind and how can beggars (me, we) live in palace?
World we live in is , suffering from malnourishment- of Satisfaction! And though the progress of science has occurred, we have failed to overcome this malnutrition! We are at the hands of TIME, which is, the REAL KLEPTOMANIIAC!
Few exceptions always stand up as ODDS! Very fond of odds , I always do try and get closer to their mindset. Looking at their dedicated work and the SATISFACTION makes me a dwarf in all respect! Keeping aside money constraints they work to gain what possibly we could just think of, or might not even think of! The sacrifices made by them to achieve the island are harsh, painful sometimes even emotional but their strength is their WORK… I said island coz it’s the place where access is less and being alone yet is blessed with treasure, which kleptomaniacs like us wont succeed grabbing this treasure… as it excludes gems, currency, properties and FAME which we are fond of.. instead that bounds SATISFACTION , INFINITE HAPPINESS AND THAT SOUL PEACE!!!! It’s the palace antagonistic with the palace in our mind and how can beggars (me, we) live in palace?
World we live in is , suffering from malnourishment- of Satisfaction! And though the progress of science has occurred, we have failed to overcome this malnutrition! We are at the hands of TIME, which is, the REAL KLEPTOMANIIAC!
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
YOGA
i often read about YOGA and the benefits chaps gain from it...but never tried practising it, and that -----baba cracked my skull and often wondered HOW CULD PEOPLE LEARN YOGA IN A MOB? still hthe Q hovers!!! It was then, i made a decision to rise up early, probably b4 sun, and make my body muscles feel the strain...the movements in YOGA!
I initially suffered '----' pain throughout the body and also tried to 'bunk' yoga exercises.. the other reason accompanying this was the GOD atmosphere being pleasurely created which many folks enjoyed!! and ya dey atill do... i am an ATHEIST..so u will understand the rejection to that atmosphere( i shud add that every one curses me for being so...) As my body tuned to the elegant yogic movements,the freshness,the mental fitness i started enjoying it. It seems that our body does not take the freshness though its available at dawn, may be that is allergic to many souls as they arent use to...
An important thing i noticed and experienced which wud justify my observations and inferences.. All the ASANS are purely based on the animals, birds and trees which makes our souls damn fit! which means that YOGA brings one close to nature and it does train a person in way applying nature laws! Yoga also deals and 'seals' the FIVE ELEMENTS and healthy, fresh, and energized ENERGY! PRANAYAM helps capturing,conserving,nurturing and enhancing the energy. Meditation goals at stable mind a thoughtless one, experiencing a segregation from this ARTICULOUS WORLD... materialistic wud be a precise one..may be.
i am unable to conclude this vast topic which i am aware isnt tea of my cup!!!! so as to conclude i would say...practise YOGA...
I initially suffered '----' pain throughout the body and also tried to 'bunk' yoga exercises.. the other reason accompanying this was the GOD atmosphere being pleasurely created which many folks enjoyed!! and ya dey atill do... i am an ATHEIST..so u will understand the rejection to that atmosphere( i shud add that every one curses me for being so...) As my body tuned to the elegant yogic movements,the freshness,the mental fitness i started enjoying it. It seems that our body does not take the freshness though its available at dawn, may be that is allergic to many souls as they arent use to...
An important thing i noticed and experienced which wud justify my observations and inferences.. All the ASANS are purely based on the animals, birds and trees which makes our souls damn fit! which means that YOGA brings one close to nature and it does train a person in way applying nature laws! Yoga also deals and 'seals' the FIVE ELEMENTS and healthy, fresh, and energized ENERGY! PRANAYAM helps capturing,conserving,nurturing and enhancing the energy. Meditation goals at stable mind a thoughtless one, experiencing a segregation from this ARTICULOUS WORLD... materialistic wud be a precise one..may be.
i am unable to conclude this vast topic which i am aware isnt tea of my cup!!!! so as to conclude i would say...practise YOGA...
Sunday, July 22, 2007
Darker side
As my template appears black...i often look at events. things arround me in a different way! i am always keen to peep into the DARKER SIDE... which makes me a person wid a negative perspective in 'common eye'... neverthless least concerned about the world. i eye the dark!!!!!!
having done Graduation in biotech, i never looked at it as people do.. a nasty question comes to my mind... WILL CHANGES IN GENES REALLY HELP HUMANS???? coz we are manipulating nature itself, changing the very GENETIC MAKEUP... why??? a very selfish answer pops up... BENEFIT TO HUMANS!!!!
In my view though, these changes are going to lead a magnified destruction of mankind, as its gona kill NATURE LAWS... UNFORTUNATELY Homo sapiens sapiens i.e we humans----the most intelligent creature on EARTH is missing one link...that he tooo is a part of NATURE. it may project my reluctance towards gathering possible advantages of biotech, but how one can neglect the very basic question? and to my surprize no one answers me seriously...coz again the commercial view strengthens and the Q STROLLS A NAIVE PATH!!!!
we understand importance of SUN, thanks to the dark evil sky, which covers the rays as the clock tics!!!!
having done Graduation in biotech, i never looked at it as people do.. a nasty question comes to my mind... WILL CHANGES IN GENES REALLY HELP HUMANS???? coz we are manipulating nature itself, changing the very GENETIC MAKEUP... why??? a very selfish answer pops up... BENEFIT TO HUMANS!!!!
In my view though, these changes are going to lead a magnified destruction of mankind, as its gona kill NATURE LAWS... UNFORTUNATELY Homo sapiens sapiens i.e we humans----the most intelligent creature on EARTH is missing one link...that he tooo is a part of NATURE. it may project my reluctance towards gathering possible advantages of biotech, but how one can neglect the very basic question? and to my surprize no one answers me seriously...coz again the commercial view strengthens and the Q STROLLS A NAIVE PATH!!!!
we understand importance of SUN, thanks to the dark evil sky, which covers the rays as the clock tics!!!!
thats something to tell.....
very new to this blog world...my friend rj told me about this.... idea struck and made me to write which probably folks will like .... i have done my graduation in biotech and I DNT BELIVE IN BTECH!!!! next post will make this clear
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